Thursday, December 22, 2011
The allure of cats
Some of us are dog people, and others are cat people. Then there are those like me, who adore dogs and yet we find cats irresistible too. The only solution for us is to have (at least) one of each.
Fostering dogs has become a way of life for me over the past year, and my long-time canine companion Chica seems to have come to terms with the endless parade of strange dogs, from tiny bottle-feeders to a young puppy with a broken leg, a poodle with no social skills and a dachsund with Valley Fever who appears to be a fixture here, since it's hard to adopt out a sick dog, no matter how normal he may appear.
But the Capt and I both still have a yen for the unique company of a cat. We had a male named Pooz when we lived in California, as well as a little Maltese named Sofia, and they coexisted as though they'd never heard they were supposed to be natural enemies. Their interspecies wrestling matches on the living room rug were far more entertaining than TV. When we went sailing, we gave Pooz to a friend who lives on 64 acres, which we always thought would be a great life for him since he so enjoyed ranging far and wide. And Sofia died last year at 13. But now we have another Maltese named Chica, Chiquito the dachsund, the neighbors' Yorkie we babysit, and as of last week, another cat. Female, this time.
I've never had a female cat before and I'm impressed by the difference in her manner. Fé (Spanish for Faith) is the mellowest and most amiable creature I've ever had in my home. She was abandoned when her owner, a neighbor, had to leave in a hurry to help with a family emergency. For a few days I just went to the empty condo to feed her and let her sit in my lap for a while. There were four dogs in my house at the time and I didn't think she'd be happy being so outnumbered.
Finally, one day I took Lucy the poodle to her new home with a retired German lady who's smitten with her, and I brought Fé home. I put her in a crate, took her to the vet for worming and shots, and brought her to my house, crossing my fingers that Chica, Chiquito and Akira would keep the peace. For a couple of days I set up a baby gate in the living room doorway to mark off Fé's territory, and then gradually allowed the dogs into the room. There have been some tense moments, and some jealousy, but for the most part Fé has kept such a low profile they forget she's around until she speaks up. We've even had Chica and Fé in bed with us while we watched a movie.
So the question comes up, are we fostering this cat or are we adopting her? We might be able to find a home for her, though it's a lot easier to adopt out kittens. At some point soon we'll have to decide, but for now we'll just enjoy her company and see how it goes...
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9 comments:
I'm a cat person and would love to have one but our g'daughter is extremely allergic to them. As much as I love cats, I love my g'daughter more so I'll just live vicariously through you and enjoy your kitty tales.
She is Gorgeous!
Hi, Barb
Allergy to cats is a sad thing. Maybe she'll outgrow it, sometimes people do.
Mic - She is indeed. And now that she's been here a week, she is allowed outdoors and has a whole golf course to explore. She has made peace with my dogs and even sleeps in the same bed with Chica. I didn't think we could have a cat with our dog population, but here we are!
I enjoyed fostering a cat -- for a week. Then I was happy to see her go.
Steve - A week isn't enough. Especially with a cat that's already adapted to other people.
happy new year and many blessings to the dog and cat lady. i am the same way-i love both equally though! as you know i had to give all our babies away. i would love to be able to have a pet and we will when we get back to the states. jack is doing fine at 16 1/2, thankfully. our kitties are doing fine as well. you should keep fe. she is beautiful and sounds low maintenance. also, she has fe in you, she knows you would be a wonderful family to adopt her so i do hope you will keep her.
we are in laos now, on the last leg of our trip. we head to hanoi in a few hours and on to nagoya tomorrow. we have had a wonderful time! angkor wat is absolutely amazing. i will post pix in a few days.
take care,
teresa
Teresa - It does look like Fé is going to stay.
glad to hear it. when we were in laos i saw a few strays. one little kitten looked like it was starving. unfortunately i had nothing to feed it and no way to find a place where i could buy food or milk. i was heartbroken but all i could do was pet its little head. i hope and pray it survives.
teresa
i'm so glad she is staying. how is she doing? have the dogs totally adapted to having her around?
i hope to feel better in a few days. steve and i caught real bad colds, probably on the plane. if i do feel better soon, i am going to go to the park where i used to feed the cats when we were at the hilton. i don't go as often because it's a good distance, but i also feed cats that hang around our river. i also donate food to a dog groomer who takes in stray cats. tyring do my share of helping.
take care and have a great day. btw, what are your temps like now? we're ranging from high 30s at night to mid 40s in the dytime. next week it's supposed to go down to the high 20s at night. i love the change of seasons, plus, we have central heat which we didn't have our first 2 times living here. winters in western wa. are no fun-lots of rain.
wish i'd written this as an e-mail, oh well, too late now.
take caaare,
teresa
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